So, What Did I Accomplish and Learn About Myself in 2009?

This year has been great and I learned so much about myself and what I can do if I set few goals and saw what happened. These are some of the highlights of my year.

  1. No internet for 2 weeks.
  2. Read a book in a day.
  3. Did a crazy cardio challenge for a whole week.
  4. Multiple times walking 29 flight of stairs (twice with 10lb ankle weights on each leg).
  5. Went to California and enjoyed myself immensely.
  6. Figured out my other passion: Photography!
  7. Read 5 books in a month.
  8. Did task/goals on my someday list.
  9. Set my countdown to leave Corporate America.
  10. I learn how to write better; also, my grammar improved so damn much.
  11. Start a novel.
  12. Wrote over 300,000 words.
  13. Take a trip for the sole purpose of seeing how fucked up a city truly is (Detroit).
  14. A 900-plus-mile road trip from Detroit to New York.
  15. Saw how a small business is striving during a shitty economy.
  16. Wrote for a full month in my novel (nearly 30k words of dedication).
  17. Bought a house.
  18. Proposed to my girlfriend!!!!! (She said yes).
  19. Finished writing my first novel. (Wrote over 108k words! It is a pile of shit right now, but I’m the shit for completing this crazy challenge).
  20. Wrote every single day of the year and will never stop doing so…

I also figured out many things about myself.

  1. I’m an impatient person.
  2. I work best with less goals.
  3. I think way too fucken much and wish I can turn it off.
  4. I go into loops of thought and don’t know how to stop thinking about what I don’t want to think about. (This one is weird, will explain once I figure out how to get out of my head).
  5. I am an extreme type of person. My fiancée notice this when I was doing my crazy challenges.
  6. I truly found myself. This is an on-going experience, but writing everyday gave me a chance to question everything about myself. In the beginning of the year, I wrote for 2 straight months of thoughts that were in my head. I was surprised by the information that was effecting the way I lived. I strongly recommend people to write for a couple of minutes a couple of days a week to have a clearer vision of what they want to do or struggling with.
  7. I like walking. It is great exercise and very therapeutic. Besides laughing at all of the fat people running on the trail I frequently walk, I’m still amazed how better it is on my joints and how the weight disappears. Since I’m so much in my head, the walking helps me to not think (well, as little as possible) and gives me the opportunity to calm my thought, provoking ass down.

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November: 2 More Months to Go

It has been a month since I’ve started my challenge of writing my novel. I learned many things about myself and the dedication that I put forward towards this challenge. If I want to do anything, I can do it, it just depends on how bad I want to do something. I don’t need to know how to make the goal happen, that will come with time.

What Did I Learn From my Novel Writing?

However, I did realize that I have many loose ends in my writing. It is something that will take me the rest of the year to make my goal of getting it done by the end of the year. It is okay. I plan to also enter this writing competition and will need to edit a passage of my novel to make it contest ready. This step of editing and reediting is what I will be doing sometime next year with my whole book altogether. I’m looking forward to that moment and will see how I do with this particular task in the coming week.

What Did and Didn’t Get Completed

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2nd Quarter Review and What I’m Planning

This post was written 2 months ago and have been busy doing other things. It is funny, though, once you write something down, things start to happen and relatively quickly.

The second quarter has come and past, I’m already into the discovery of my next step in my life. I’m not going to explain what did and didn’t happen, but I’m to say that it was a hard, challenging, and a worthwhile quarter.

For the most part, my story isn’t as different from the next person, but as I talk to more people and get their take on what I’m doing, I am seeing that I’m taking hold of my life, even with being trap in Corporate America. I have learn that I’m my worst enemy and my biggest cheerleader. I have to learn the difference between being motivated by others and motivated by myself. If one is constantly motivated by others, than their life is not theirs, they are being push in the wind, because the action is controlled by reaction.

“It is easy to be motivated by somebody not believing in you; the hard part is to be motivated when no one is around…

-Me

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